July...

This post may be all over the place, and completely random.... I have had great intentions of getting my blog updated for the last two weeks.... but keep forgetting my camera - so no new pictures -

But no pictures may not be a bad thing. Last week I took Grace and Max to the Brigham pool with my sisters and nieces and nephews. Not one lovely child would look at the camera - not even once! We, or maybe I should say I - had a great, short time. I have been nervous about taking my kids to the pool by myself. Max is a wanderer and who knows where he'd get off too. I brought both their life jackets, had them sun screened up and they both were terrified of the water. Max wouldn't even sit in it - he clung to either me or Cassie and was scared to death. Grace liked to play on the very edge, I showed her cousin Adi swimming like a shark, down on her hands and knees and belly. But she wouldn't do it. We tried to coax her down the small kiddie slides, but she wouldn't do it. I tried to wade with her into the water, but she wouldn't do it. Nope. Then I said come on honey, don't you want to go down the slide? And she looked at me and pointed to the big, big, big slide and said "That one!" So we took off her life jacket, and she went down it three times. She loved it! But even after that she wouldn't go down the kiddie slides. Next time we'll have to go earlier because it hits nap time and my kids wanted to go home.

We also took a trip to the zoo with all of the cousins, which was so much fun. It was a cool breezy day, and not too busy. Grace loves the elephants and the giraffes and Max is my busy body. He's happy as long as he's moving....

One thing that is kind of funny.. kind of funny for now... Grace doesn't get along with her cousin Adi so well. Grace is 6 months older, and I'm not sure where the animosity came from, but for the last several months Grace has just been mean. On our way up to Hyrum she says shes not going to share with Adi - I catch her taking her toys and pushing her - what am I going to do? When we get to my sisters Adi always says "Hi Grace!" and my daughter just ignores her or says "No!" Where does this behavior come from?

So back to the funny thing - at the zoo Grace would not sit in the wagon, even though she loves the wagon. I could see it on her face, do I sit with Adi in the wagon that I love - or sit in the stroller and let Max sit in the wagon? She ended up in the stroller. Oh yes, she is a stubborn little one.

But she still makes me smile. Her vocabulary is very advanced for only being 2 and a half. A dvd was skipping at my house and she said, "Mom the DVD is struggling." When she was slipping on the couch she said "I'm struggling". She she's using words in the correct context. The last few days Grace has also started to pretend she is a puppy. She named herself, and only answers to Little Jake. (Grandma Kates dog is Jake...) I've told her if I have a puppy I'm naming it Sparky, and she gets really mad. She crawls on all fours, barks in the store and wants to eat bones. I made Mac N cheese and told her they were cheesy bones to get her to eat. Isn't she a little young for this?

Max is learning new words to.. But he is mostly of the opinion of the point and grunt will get him what he needs. He can say mama, papa, bye, ball, grandpa, hot, i wub u and thank you. But my very favorite thing Max has started doing is growling - he growls when he's happy, and pats his chest with both hands. I'll have to try and get it on video, it is the funniest thing! He loves balls and cars, and his mama. (I'm not saying he doesn't love others... but I'm definitely his favorite right now....)

We've been having a really hard time at church for the past few months. I've skipped sacrament a couple times, and Mikes left early with the kids a couple times. Grace hates nursery, but she's too little to sit still in class. It's during nap time. So yesterday as I was getting ready I kept thinking, I'm not going. I'll go to primary, but I'm done battling every week. I thought about telling the primary president that I needed to be moved to nursery, or released. In fact, that thought ran through my head many times. But we went anyways. We sat in our "usual" spot, towards the back of the chapel and my kids were not holy terrors. They were not angels, but we didn't leave once, not even for a potty time. I was just thinking, were doing okay today when Grace broke out in tears and started crying. "I don't want to go to nursery, there is too many kids!" Mike tried to take her any ways but ended up bringing her back to me because she wouldn't go in. 5 minutes later he came back and said they wanted to move Grace into the older nursery, it's more calm and structured as the kids are getting ready for primary. I went with her, and she sat down and started string fruit loops on a pipe cleaner. I left after a few minutes and she didn't cry. She had fun! She colored, talked about Jesus and told me she suppose to fold her arms in sacrament. Just when I was ready to quit church shes having fun! hmm... maybe a few prayers got answered yesterday! We'll have to see how next week goes!

And now I think I've rambled on long enough.... oh. I'm really glad for spell check...